Do You Want A Relationship?

Oct 25, 2015 | Relationships |

Do you want a relationship? Every time you say “I want a relationship.” You are saying “ I lack of a relationship.” When you say “I want…” the universe hears “I lack…” When you are asking for anything, be aware of what you are asking for. Every word has energy. Does the energy of the words you are using match what you are truly asking for?

If you desire to have someone in your life, you have to know what this is for you. I meet a lot of people who ask me how to get a relationship. When I ask them ‘Truth, do you truly desire a relationship?” the energy is often different to what they are saying to me. You have to get clear on what a relationship is.

In this reality, a relationship is not fun, playful and different every day. In this reality a relationship is a way of suffering the trials and tribulations of life together. If you desire someone in your life who is playful, joyful and will be a contribution, stop calling it a relationship! Relationship is the distance between two things. Is that what you are asking for? Or would you like to choose something that is greater than distance? Something that is beyond what exists here? That is called a joyful possibility for living, not a relationship!

If you find someone you enjoy, live in the question and follow your awareness. Are you willing to uncreate and destroy your “relationship” every day so that it can become greater? Every time you uncreate and destroy everything your relationship was yesterday, you open the doors to future possibilities.

Your awareness creates joyful possibilities with enjoyable others. What kind of future would you like to create? What kind of enjoyable other would contribute to the creation of that future? Get the energy of what your life will be like in five years if you choose beyond relationship. Get the energy of what your life will be like in five years if you choose relationship… Which one is more expansive?

Get the energy of what you truly desire to create beyond this reality’s version of relationship. Now ask: “What energy, space, and consciousness can I be that would allow all of this to come to fruition with total ease?”

If you were willing to allow everything to come to fruition with total ease, then you
wouldn’t try to define what you were willing to receive. You would be willing to receive what is actually possible. The universe tries to give us way more than we are willing to receive. When you define what it is you are willing to receive, you limit the possibilities.

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